It has been a year that I didn't update any post into my blog.
Recently I've had read a book about the philosophy of love, 《谈一场不分手的恋爱》by 张小娴. I found that some of the phrase really touch down in my heart. Everyone is seeking for a perfect one to love, but have you ever think about 原来爱情不是去爱一个完美的人，而是去接受他和我一样，是一个不完美的人; God makes everyone in their unique way, no one is perfect in life, because He is fair.
My life changed in the past one year, I ended my five years plus relationship and now I've been trying hard to walk into another relationship, 去习惯他的习惯. But I know that 阴晴圆缺，在一段爱情里不断重演，换一个人，也不会天色常蓝, therefore laughter, tears, arguments still remain as long as I'm in love. I am not a perfect person either, so 我哭、我闹, just because I am wanting for your care.
I think guys always wonder what their girls want? Does this question ever come to your mind? 女人想要的难道不明显吗？No matter what we are craving for, the answer would be lots of love and lot of 安全感。男人都不喜欢女人哭泣，但我们从不把眼泪留给不值得的人，我们只把最多的思念和最多的眼泪留给那个用尽生命深深爱着的他。
When you realized that your partner changed a lot day by day, many wrong information will send to your brain and tell you that 他对你的爱是减低制，但其实我们都没变，只是更贴近真实的彼此。Love a person who love you equally as you do, then the love will last. 试着接受、包容、宽恕彼此的不一样；在爱情里，对等的付出，这样爱着爱着就一辈子了。
